Thursday, June 14, 2007

The best answer to anger is SILENCE.


Silence is powerful.
It can make up everything.
Whenever I am down, I prefer silence.It gives me strength to come out of that situation.
Whenever I get angry with someone, I prefer not to say a single word to that person. I think, its the person who should search for the answer as to why I am angry with him/her.
Is it correct to do?
Would one ever think as to what has gone wrong with the other person?
Does these things matter to him/her?

Well, I simply don't know.

Again, I want to be remain silent.

Wanna introspect......KEEP SILENCE!

Expectation kills!


We humans' have this common tendency that we think a lot about almost everything or for that matter about nothing!We expect a lot from others. Parents expects from their children; teacher from student, friend from friend, GF/BF from BF/GF..oh its a long long list. And we always end up seeing ourselves in this whirlwind of hangups.
When it comes to your success, I do feel its important to have expectations from yourself.But when it comes to relations, I think one should never ever expects from anyone, not even from your closest one. The thing that happens is, when we start making apprehensions naa, we start thinking from someone else's point of view. In the sense, that we start making assumptions as how he/she will react. And when it doesn't work the way we want, it hurts...it hurts big time.
Its these catches that kills you at the end.
Its always easy to say "Don't Expect", but at the same time it is the most toughest thing "Not to Expect".
Somehow I have made my mind and now I simply don't expect anything from anyone.Life is much more smooth now.
But phir bhi, we always will say that so many apprehensions, so less time for it!

Enjoy life to the fullest.Just don't expect!
Thats the mantra!
Follow it and you will be the most happy person on this beautiful earth.

Friday, June 08, 2007

Its going to change in few days....


Our second last paper of the last semester of our grad life got over yesterday. Just four more days for the last paper and then......the time has come-my life is going to change-completely. I will never again get the same friends, the same life.
Four beautiful years of my life and now it seems all is going to change in a blink of eye. I have made friends here....yeah friends for my whole life. I have spent some of the bestest moments of my life with them.I have seen the ups and downs of life-through my eyes as well as through the eyes of my friends.I have learnt lessons- lessons for my life which will only help me in my future.If I go in my recap mode, then I find that there were so many things that I wanted, but couldn't/didn't do. In this flashback mode, I see all the time and talks and things that I have enjoyed with my friends.

Reality is sinking in greatly.Life seems to be in the fast lane right now.

I am excited about my new life which will not be as carefree and full of fun as my present life but yeah would definitely be more challenging and exciting in its own ways. Its nothing but a mere hope or way which I have used to paint over all my apprehensions and feelings of loss.

But as they say," Life is all about moving forward,its always about to keep good old memories with you and keep moving ahead in life". This is life-you carry good old memories with you so that the past always seems like a beautiful time.

I always have kept this stand that I am not going to miss this phase of my life. But somewhere deep inside my heart, I do know that I am going to miss it for sure.

Miss you all! For you people had made these 4 years of my college life,a roller coaster ride.
Wishing all my friends and acquaintances, the best of life!