Silence is powerful.
It can make up everything.
Whenever I am down, I prefer silence.It gives me strength to come out of that situation.
Whenever I get angry with someone, I prefer not to say a single word to that person. I think, its the person who should search for the answer as to why I am angry with him/her.
Is it correct to do?
Would one ever think as to what has gone wrong with the other person?
Does these things matter to him/her?
Well, I simply don't know.
Again, I want to be remain silent.
Wanna introspect......KEEP SILENCE!
14 comments:
Khamoshiyaan gungunaane lagin! :)
NO no no its not at all correct. If you are angry at someone just let him/her know. Do you expect others to read your mind ?? I mean sometimes the mistakes are quite evident but most of the times you might get hurt by something that he/she didn't intentionally said or did ?? And if in that case you stop talking to that person then you both will end up with a tattered relationship. Problems in life just dont disappear like a puff of smoke, you need to work them out.
I hope things work out :)
Refer Neo:
Agreed.
But there is something called understanding..how well you know the other person.
And if things have done intentionally then?
There are things for which you don't have any answer OR you just don't want to get the answer of those things.
But then, ironically, you won't even know wat sum1 else has in heart for you if you don't hear it from the horse's mouth itself!
Again, SILENCE!
You should speak clearly to the person you are angry with.Doesn't matter what he/she has in heart.
Remaining silent is not a solution.If you are silent then think of a solution and speak to them.Don't jst keep the anger and be silent.
PS: Don't repeat d same mistake babe.!
well. silence shud not always b used for anger....
silence also represents trust ... when we trust each other.. we need not speak.. our silence is enough.... but for everyone else.. silence does not work tat well...
silence is strength, but we oughta use it in trust ...
Silence is a double-faced weapon.. it hurts both ways.. so plz dont use it like that.
silence is very wrong. it can be misinterpreted. its best not to let ones anger affect ones words. one should keep silence only if one doesn't have control over his/her words. if you do then one should speak out and "express" his/her anger so that the other person/people know exactly whats the cause of the anger. thats how mature adults should ideally handle their discontent.
no offense meant but girls generally tend to keep quiet or start crying instead of expressing their anger which makes the situation worse.
Do you really follow this?? I mean it may work out some times but not always. No one cares about your anger until unless he is close to you.And why should they?? I feel making the other person realsie about your anger is more important.Maintaing silence cannot do that. I am even not sure what on earth made you think that the reason for your anger will be the other person`s mistake?? There can be lots of misunderstanding because of this. The best thing is to TALK not to keep silence..
I hope you are not confused over the 'Gandhian principle' of keeping silence.I am sure you are not thinking of mind games. People really dont have time for that now a days.
Silence is foolish if we are wise, but wise if we are foolish.
:)
just joke...
Somewt agree wid u...But silence is not only solution...
Wenever u expect from sumone 2 undrstnd what u feel,always remember dat how can dat person know smthng dat u were never able to express.
Things left unsaid becomes unheard...
Think...
After reading all the comments i must say that silence is the only option left when the other person is in a denial.
When you are in a relationship with someone and you really love that person. sometimes you have to stop arguing and bickering which only makes it worse. What you need is silence so that both of you realise your misakes on your own and decide what you want.
YOu cannot commnicate and win a relationship with logic or reasoning if there are no feelings. And absence makes the heart grow fonder. till you dont go she will never realise what she lost.
Remember friends:
'Throw your most valuable thing away, If it comes back its yours forever. But If it doesnt, it was never yours'
I know its easier said than done. I am also in a similar Phase. But please try to understand that there is only survival of the fittest and nobody needs the needy and the desperate. Yes the world is a harsh reality. Good luck!
Silence is wisdom
what about when you have already told that someone you were hurt and angry, so you left. You talked about it, words were exchanged (Im sorry's) but you still felt you needed to leave. And now there is silence on both ends and its killing you. No attempt for another heart felt I was wrong. I silence still best?
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